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I am dissatisfied.

One week from today I will be in Chattanooga, Tennessee embarking on Day One of another six-day Leadershape experience. It is not facilitating six days of intensive leadership training that I am dissatisfied with. That, I love.

The thing I am dissatisfied with is total inaccessibility to the internet, while staying at the campgrounds were the institute is being hosted.

I have a blog to write and after three years and 62 days of delivering a post Monday through Friday, I am not about to stop now.

Don't bother trying to convince me that the world won't crumble if I miss posting on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday. I know it won't, but part of shining is being relentlessly passionate.

It might seem like the perfect time to suggest a guest blogger from some other site in cyberspace. But, I enjoy the close relationship our community has developed and bringing someone in from the outside would feel more like an issue of convenience than it would a solution I am proud of.

An obvious solution might be to write three posts before I leave and then set each of them to post at 4:00 a.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, respectively. Normally I write each day's post either the night before or on the morning it is posted. I like it that way, because (to me) the regularity makes my posts feel more like a dialogue between us than it does a one-way conversation. If you felt like you were being talked at all week, would you get bored and walk away - never to return?

Can you believe this is the stuff I think about?

Neither can my husband, Richard.

I spent this past weekend turning the problem around in my head. By Sunday night when I still had no epiphany, I decided it was time to take Roger von Oech's advice and whack myself on the side of the head. Long-time readers will remember von Oech as a regular on our site. He is a guru in creative thinking and has developed a deck of cars designed to get your creative juices flowing. Here is the prompt, provided by a randomly drawn card in his Whack Pack.

Be Dissatisfied. An inventor was asked why he spent sixteen hours every day tinkering with his work. "Because I'm dissatisfied with everything as it currently exists in its present form." Dissatisfaction can be beneficial to the creative process. Otherwise you lose the prod you need to spot potential problems and opportunities. What are you dissatisfied about? How can you turn irritation into inspiration?

To recap, here are the things with which I am dissatisfied:

I am dissatisfied that I have no internet access for the week that I will be at Leadershape.

I am dissatisfied that my routine will be broken.

I am dissatisfied with anyone's suggestion that I cry uncle and simply take a break.

I am dissatisfied with the idea that, by default, I should turn over our coveted House of Shine to a blogger who doesn't know or understand what our community is about.

I am dissatisfied with every minute that goes by that my problem is unresolved. If the solution is to be quality, it will require planning and with only four days until I leave, I am running out of daylight.

Help.

Can you help me turn my irritation into inspiration? Visit me in the comment section and share your suggestions. If I find ideas that I like, I will most certainly use them. And, if you like the idea suggested by another reader then share that too. I'm looking for solutions that, most of us agree, shine.

Thanks for helping. Shining off until tomorrow...

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    Posted @ 5/3/2011 4:18 AM by Heather
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    You mentioned guest bloggers but said no because you didn't want an outsider...what about turning it over to Cheryl, Misty and I to each write one post...or to Peggy, Robin and Molly?

    What about posing just a simple question as your post for each day and leaving it up to us the HOSers to provide the dialogue that day?

    What about you provide a topic only as your post and in the comments we each provide our version of the "blog post" for the day?

    Could we do a "Best of?" and feature our three FAVORITE posts one from each year we've got under our belt?

    That's all I've got at this early hour.

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 5:47 AM by Claudia
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    Wow, Heather. Off to a nice start. Already, there is an idea or two in there that I like.

    Thanks for getting the ball rolling!

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 6:37 AM by Peggy
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    Kudos to you Claudia!! And to answer one of your questions... "Yes, I can believe this is stuff you think about!" I don't see anythig wrong with that! :0)

    At least I hope they make it to you.... but I always send Claudia emails with links regarding other cute blogs that "Shine" or they list cute ways to make you think. Something in the subject line, I saw this and thought about you!

    I think last year we tried to go back to pick a fav old posts and although there are almost 1,000 worth of fun facts, interesting dialogue and positive influences.... I think it was a very hard task to complete. Unless an actual post is picked and then we whack it, give it a makeover or find something to twist about it.... seaching this lovely site is overwhelming!

    When we have difficulty coming up with a menu for the week, we break it down further... Monday American, Tuesday Mexican, Wednesday Asian, Thursday Italian, Friday left overs etc... it helps to narrow the selection

    So,narrow down the post topics to something like: Music Monday, Tasty Tuesday, What's up Wednesday, Thrifty Thursday.... there are any number of combinations or theme ideas....And yes, I have too much time on my hands! :0)

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 6:38 AM by Cristine
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    If you have an iphone you can blog from your phone - I have written many posts sitting at swim practice. It's a little tedious, but it works in a pinch. Perfect for a single question or thought.
    Or, just post a picture - kinda like Wordless Wednesday, that a group of us participate in weekly. (really easy from an iphone)
    Or.... buy an iPad - I really want one, but I can't justify the cost. You don't need an internet connection if you have the monthly service.
    Also, scheduled posts aren't a bad thing. I have to plan ahead for certain events - like my I Love My Mommy group event that I'm part of on Thursday. There are 100 of us that all have to post at the same time. Not going to happen without scheduling.
    Good luck Claudia - I think that I would go crazy in a campground, then again peace and quiet is a beautiful thing

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 6:54 AM by Claudia
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    I feel an idea percolating.

    Keep your ideas coming. It is working.

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 6:59 AM by Tb
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    In the businness world and personal world this happens all the time. Guess what, it even happens to the President, doctors , teachers, and even parents. I think u know the answer. Trust others and enjoy their talents and difference.

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 8:49 AM by Cheryl
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    Lots of great ideas already! Really good ones. Let's break this down a little bit more
    Monday- Yellow Envelope Project. You can get that done before you leave.
    Friday- we know already I'm taking that Friday.
    That leaves us Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday. 3 days of fun! It will stink that you won't be in the comment section that week.
    How do you turn irritation into inspiration? Guest bloggers are not out of the question. A thought provoking question would be interesting. I'll keep thinking and come back if I come up with something just spectacular.
    I am totally laughing my head off at Cristine's suggestion that you post from an iPhone! HA! Claudia will be lucky to even have her phone with her! HA! And, do you have an iPhone, Claudia? so funny.

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 10:34 AM by Cristine
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    What. No iPhone!!!!!
    We have 2 iPhones plus the kids each have an iTouch (our old iPhones). I'm addicted to my iPhone. I'm using to write this.

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 10:54 AM by Tb
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    Announce a theme for each day. Then open up to free for all staying on theme. Example. Wed theme is: how do you get yourself and kids to eat healthy. Everybody comments using game rules, must be specific, must give real life example, must use 5 key words to be known in advance, must stay to 5 lines. So on and so on. Can comment twice. U can make very elaborate and post all themes and rules week ahead. Commentor then mails to Claudia at her camp. So claudia can stay involved. Goal is to stay within Shine world and over come obstacle. Claudia you also leave your comments on theme to be posted by your team daily. ;-)

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 11:27 AM by Tb
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    Other themes:
    - does a subsitute have the right to change the planner's plan, if so why and to what degree
    Hmmmm, should Claudia's team if they are by defacto in charge change the plan? Under what conditions: to have fun, to play a joke, is that what usually occurs in real life. Is there really any place in the US with out intenet? Is this a plot

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 2:54 PM by Claudia
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    I am checking back in after having been gone all day. If all the activity on the site today is any indication of how little I will be missed next week, then I have nothing to worry about!

    I like the idea that I could be working my way out of a job!

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 3:31 PM by Heather
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    I'm with TB...trust others and enjoy the difference!

    Oh and the fact that we can change the plan =)
    We did that last week for the filming and it was fun!

    And Claudia you will never work your way out of a job you'll just add something else to your plate.

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 7:14 PM by Robin
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    You know that some of us are happy to step in. Though I'm on the don't NOT have a post on those days, consistency for readers (us) is important in terms of blog traffic. LOL

    Wednesday you could also post a crazy picture, a la Wordless Wednesday. Or even make it a puzzle - a what is this type of photo that readers leave comments about.

    No matter what you decide, you know we'll be back!

    Posted @ 5/3/2011 9:02 PM by Karlie
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    Trust those and enjoy the difference.
    You will never work yourself out of a job, because you are unique and provide a Shine quality to HOS that is the foundation for all.
    Peggy is right - break it down - maybe some of the qualities or elements that you provide and create and share at Leadershape? Focus on one topic for T, W, and Th since M and F are taken care of. Or ask Heather, Misty, Peggy or Robin to write about one of the elements you are using in Leadershape - so many possibilities that are creative and fun and of course, they can change the plan! We love you and we are here. Because of you. And the community you created.

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