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Let’s review.

The year 2011 is not, for me, just a forty-fifth run through the Roman Calendar: another year of commemorating birthdays, anniversaries, holidays and family traditions.  No, for me, 2011 is also the Year of the Book.

It is the year I am committed to sitting in front of my computer and finally putting on paper all the thoughts and ideas that, for years, I have dreamed about sharing.  So committed am I to this process that, longstanding readers know, effective January 1, I even quit my job.

It sounds drastic, I know.  But I have young children and finding the “free” time to write a book, while remaining pleasant and sane, seemed untenable for someone so intent on accomplishing her goal.  Instead I left my job and committed to two things.  First, spend a minimum of two hours, Monday through Friday, working on my book.  Second, spend the rest of my workday growing other professional opportunities and writing our daily post for the House of Shine.

The plan seems realistic, well thought out, and reflective of someone who is serious about on attaining her goal, no?

Let’s review.

The new year started on a Saturday.  No problem, I’ll jump in first thing Monday morning.

Monday, January 3 and Tuesday, January 4.  Matthew’s school is closed.  This week only three days of writing.

Saturday, January 8.  I left for eight straight days of Leadershape.  No writing that week, but lots of professional development.

Monday, January 17.  Martin Luther King Day.  No school for Matthew and another day of writing lost.

Monday, January 24Friday, January 28.  Twenty-four days into my Year of the Book and finally I enjoy my first full week of work.

Tuesday, February 1, and 2, 3, 4.  Snow and ice in Texas closes the schools for four straight days, automatically turning all moms into stay-at-home-moms.

Monday, February 7 started an abbreviated week of work. Flights to Florida disrupted my schedule on Thursday and Friday was spent signing papers not writing pages.  As it turns out, Wednesday, February 9 was another snow day, so my five-day work week turned into only two days.

Monday, February 14.  We returned from Florida mid-day and another morning of writing is lost.

Today.  Monday, February 21. Presidents Day.  No school.  Another day of work bites the dust.

In the event you are keeping track, that means in the eight weeks since the new year started, I have had ONE full week of work.

I am not complaining or making excuses.

I am simply reiterating why, when we name our year, it is essential that we be realistic and focused.

Shining off until tomorrow... 

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    Posted @ 2/21/2011 9:20 AM by Cheryl
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    Oh dear. Oh my. Oh-kay!

    Pick yourself up. Dust yourself off. And now, push the reset button. Plenty of time left in the game and today's process of realizing how quickly that time can go by is an eye opener.

    Have you considered making that time up? Giving up something else to recapture the time lost? Tacking on 15 minutes more to your daily time?

    Posted @ 2/21/2011 9:47 AM by Peggy
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    I appreciate your honesty and candor Claudia. It's great that you have a sense of what you need to do... nothing is set in stone... you can tweak your 'year' a bit.

    As many of you know, I'm a stickler for being organized and meticulous when it comes to meeting a challenge and finding closure. It's just my nature!! And I'm trying to Embrace it!!!......On a related note... I frequent a blog/site of a very creative crafter.... however she constantly apologizes for not getting her projects completed or designed by the dates she herself has set up. She often complains that life seemed to get in the way again and there just is not enough time in the day to get it all done. Because of her great inspiration and talent in the paper crafting world I stick with her.... but I'm learning to tune her out with her excuses why she didn't finish a pattern, or she didn't ship out a kit or she wasn't ready to show a project.

    Take a deep breath one persons says, another, its okay, life happens. I'm thinking, it's her blog, she can do what she wants... but I'm also thinking be realistic ( she is constantly apologizing when she doesn't get something done and realizes she doesn't want to inconveince some of her followers) I guess one thing I learned... with deadlines...I put them 'way' out there... knowing how surprised someone will actually be...because secretly it's my goal to beat that and push my butt a little harder to git er done.

    There are so many reasons to do a blog..... monetarily, community, sanity, a way to vent, share with our family & friends... but it shouldn't be another place where we have to apologize for who we are. You can't please everybody... but don't set yourself up that you can't even please yourself.

    Posted @ 2/21/2011 10:25 AM by Claudia
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    As time permits I have made up a few of the hours lost, but really this isn't so much about that. The real point of today's post is not to apologize or rationalize why I haven't written each day.

    The real purpose is to illuminate exactly how difficult it is to achieve a goal. We start the year off thinking we have 52 weeks, 365 days, and then we wonder and get discouraged when December gets here and we haven't made more progress. Today's post is really about taking a look inside the slice of anyone's life and realizing how quickly time goes. How, if you really are intent on making something happen, you must be realistic about what the daily and monthly work of that goal is going to mean.

    Part of what it means is things will not go as planned. Things will almost always take longer and the time available will almost always be less than expected.

    Thanks for the commentary on the other blogger you follow, Peggy. She sounds like a perfectionist. I once heard that perfectionists often procrastinate as a way of explaining why things never turn out as well as hoped.

    Posted @ 2/21/2011 10:25 AM by Misty
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    Just do your best, as I know you do, and focus on the big picture. You are human and at times life will just get in the way of your "Year of". It does not mean you are not working towards your goal, it just might not be in your timing.

    Posted @ 2/21/2011 3:34 PM by Molly
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    Wow Claudia - I am impressed you can recount the 8 weeks! I lose track of most weeks and can't figure out how I spent them!

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