When I was a teenager, I vividly remember my father telling me that each of us has a responsibility to participate in dinner table conversation. I was quiet and, though I had lots swirling around in my head, I preferred to sit back and listen.
I've never forgotten what he said. Responsibility seemed like such a strong word for something as casual as dinner table conversation.
Now, as the parent of a teenager, I realize my dad was right.
Family - like community - is only as strong as the connections between people. My relationship with family members, and theirs to me, depends our willingness to share the ups and downs of life. Family often manifests in things such as warm dinners; TLC when you are sick; feeling special; support for hobbies and interests; and the comfort of family holidays and traditions. But ultimately, inherent in all of those trappings, is an exchange between people who have a vested interest in one another.
Community works similarly. It is only as strong as the connections between people. And, my relationship to you and your relationship to me, and the rest of this community, is strengthened whenever you decide to share a little something about your life.
That is why, on - or around - the eighteenth of each month, House of Shine readers take a few minutes to share our high (best thing), low (worst thing), and aha (something we've learned) since the month before. It is our small way of keeping dinner table conversation lively.
Long-time reader, newbies, and lurkers I hope you will visit us in the Community Forum labeled, Today's Post and participate. It's easy. Watch:
High: House guests we loved having; Fourth of July with friends and family; trying out for the Oprah Winfrey Network; reconnecting with an old friend; lounging by the pool that I insisted I didn't want; and Saturday night dates with my husband.
Low: Getting a ticket for driving through the Target parking lot without my seatbelt on; good-byes; and knowing that people I love are feeling sad.
Aha: a yummy dessert recipe from Heather; I am more sensitive and less patient than I allow myself to admit; and yesterday (during a StrengthsQuest training session) I discovered why it is so hard for me to keep up with email.
Your turn.
Shining off until tomorrow...